I can't think of anything more painful than you loving
someone and caring about someone more than you can even put into words and then
that person totally screwing you over. It sucks how you can love someone more
than anything and yet that person can rip your heart out of your chest and
completely take all of your self-confidence away in an instant. It blows my
mind how you can spend so much time with someone and then all of a sudden that
person can throw everything away with one choice, one action. I do however
believe in karma, and I believe that people who have no consideration for other
and people who have no problem with hurting other people will end getting what
they deserve. Whether that is getting their own hearts broken or even just
realizing that what they did ruined someone’s life. When someone you love,
trust, and spend a lot of time with betrays you and breaks your heart, you definitely
want to just crawl in a hole and be left alone and you also feel like your life
is over. Though this is very painful, there is hope. After the girl I spent 3
years of my life with screwed me over, I found myself in an extremely low and
dark place. I spent weeks struggling to get through my days and I was a very
angry person, but after a few weeks I realized that life was going to go on and
everything was going to be okay. I realized that I deserved someone who treated
me with respect and loved me for who I am and now things are a lot better and
have gotten over what happened. Sometimes when you are going through a tough
situation, all you can do is hold on and give things time.
I'm glad that you got over. Love is Big and when I date men, I don't fall in love with him because I don't know for sure if I'm going to spend my life with them. What I like to do get to knows him and go on from there. Love is second last before marry. It just for me. Love is pain.
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